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7 Mindset Lessons From Moving A House In The Countryside
How a 2-month move taught me the secrets of success, resilience, and self-improvement.
Good morning!
It’s been a while.
Today I’m going to share an update on where the f*ck I’ve been while leaving you with some lessons I’ve learned along the way.
I’ve spent the last 2+ months moving.
Not the traditional move your shit from one house to another, no.
I moved my whole house! (proof below)
Yes, you read correctly.
My wife and I bought a manufactured home right before the pandemic hit. It’s just been sitting on my in-laws property for the last 3 years.
And it’s not a mobile home, it’s double-wide and built sturdier, so it’s somewhat fancy (if I do say so myself).
We decided we wanted to live on our own and raise our kids by our standards before 2024.
Currently, we’re making small adjustments, cleaning up the property, and trying to come to terms with the fact that we own a tiny piece of Earth.
Let’s forget about taxes for a second, yeah?
You can see the progression on X below as I take you through my journey.
Here are 7 mindset lessons I’ve learned from moving (with footage of me on the battlefield):
1) Work smarter AND harder
Every creator's journey is hard at the start.
You will fail.
You will struggle.
You will need effort.
But you need to keep going longer than others are willing to tolerate until you find your flow.
Your magic formula.
Success is not an event, it's an endurance… twitter.com/i/web/status/1…
— Brand Marz 🐉 (@BrandMarz)
5:15 PM • Sep 14, 2023
Most people tell you to work smarter, not harder.
That’s true for non-creative tasks like digging a trench and all types of manual labor.
However, when it comes to creative endeavors, elite-level crafts, and knowledge work, you should do BOTH.
Working smarter allows you to maximize your output with less time (leverage).
Working harder allows you to stand out if your craft involves competition (business/work).
For me, I’m building a personal brand and trying to earn bonuses at my job.
I need to leverage my time by working on skills that make an impact as opposed to mundane tasks like checking emails and making my Notion dashboard look aesthetic.
Lastly, working harder might just mean you spend a little more time each day refining your craft.
Send an extra 3 DMs
Spend an extra 10 minutes writing code
Add an extra bonus to your new client’s program
Sometimes it means just outlasting your competition. Keep going when others decide to quit because real progress in anything takes years.
2) Adopt the mindset of antifragility
Today, I quit my morning routine.
Why?
It's been a crazy time recently.
Like many phases of life, moving gets super stressful.
• Routines get thrown off.
• Workouts get missed.
• Schedules are gone.All my progress is fucked.
Right?
Are you so fragile that you let one… twitter.com/i/web/status/1…
— Brand Marz 🐉 (@BrandMarz)
9:46 PM • Sep 24, 2023
I stole this one from my buddy Chris Fritz.
The concept of Antifragility means resilience.
Life will throw a lot of nasty shit at you. That is guaranteed.
If you embrace that fact and reframe it as a growth opportunity, you become undefeatable.
Even when the hardest circumstances face you, you’ll come out of it unscathed or better, more Antifragile.
3) Environment is an extension of your mind
Last week, my wife and I moved our home up the road 14 miles.
We saved up to live on our own property to:
• Homestead
• Create DIY projects
• Thrive in quiet solitudeYour environment is everything.
Don’t work for money. Work for what money can do for your lifestyle.
— Brand Marz 🐉 (@BrandMarz)
11:45 AM • Oct 3, 2023
Your surroundings will make or break you.
Every second, your subconscious mind is taking in the environment, processing it, and giving you feedback.
Think of it as a water pipe that is constantly dripping.
Sure, one drop isn’t much, but over years of single drips, you probably have a pond’s worth of water.
That water is the
Opinion of family members
TV that’s constantly blasting propaganda
Bad memories of your childhood that make you anxious
If you can, change your environment. Move to a place where you have more control over your inputs.
It might be the key to finally being able to pursue your dreams that have been on hold for years.
4) Functional fitness is just being more of a human
Forget deadlifting 500 lbs.
Have you tried digging a 50 ft+ trench?
It’s like 1000 reps of 10 lb deadlifts + pull downs.
Fuck your deadlift. Screw your bench.
How much you trench?
— Brand Marz 🐉 (@BrandMarz)
1:35 PM • Oct 5, 2023
The gym is glorified but you don’t need it to get in great shape.
I lost 8 lbs (unintentionally) from all the manual labor I did this past 2 months.
You don’t need to make holes in your yard. I’m just saying you could get in great shape by simply doing what humans were designed to do:
Walk
Carry
Squat
Bend
Push
Pull
Twist
These are primal movement patterns. Just add some weight to them, do a combination of them daily and progressively make it more difficult.
Fitness should be simple.
If you need a workout program, I have you covered with The Essentials Program.
5) Everyone needs to learn psychology and marketing
I used the psychology tips I’ve learned this year on my neighbors.
I needed an easement signed for electricity on my property.
And…
They happily agreed!
Here’s what I did:
• Led with stories
• Solved their needs first
• Made interactions frictionlessA real life hack.
— Brand Marz 🐉 (@BrandMarz)
3:56 PM • Oct 5, 2023
I used to be a socially anxious introvert who avoided interactions.
Stuck in my room playing video games, I hoped I never had to get a job or speak to random strangers.
In 2019, I sold over 6-figures of personal training packages in person which got me promoted at my old job in 4 months.
Learning how to sell and market is a life cheat code.
You don’t even need to be salesy or sneaky like a used car salesman about it.
Psychology is just the way our brain works. If you can get people to like you, you get opportunities to get what you want.
Access
Money
Security
Resources
Relationships
6) Don’t take your comforts for granted
No electricity.
No septic.
No AC.
Just a window, wireless hotspot, and a will to win.
Can’t wait to be back 100% in my home working on my goals.
Where are you working from today?
— Brand Marz 🐉 (@BrandMarz)
1:26 PM • Oct 11, 2023
Gratitude is underrated.
I used to be a little shithead narcissist but I’ve learned to count my blessings.
Because at any moment you can lose what you value the most.
Plus, no one likes a narcissist.
I know too many of them.
I like to write 3 things I’m grateful for in my journal at least once a week.
It allows me to reframe my perspective especially if I’m feeling down.
Remembering who and what I have in my life, brings me peace of mind.
7) Setbacks make success sweeter
Mindset advice is cliche AF but I needed it now more than ever.
The last 6 weeks have really tested me.
All the platitudes thrown around here now apply for real.
No engagement farming.
The weather in TX set back our move and I could've been bitter about it.
Instead, I'm… twitter.com/i/web/status/1…
— Brand Marz 🐉 (@BrandMarz)
5:52 PM • Oct 24, 2023
“End world suffering!”
Can you imagine a world where no problems existed?
Life would lose its meaning.
The only reason we desire abs so much is because insecurity exists.
The only reason we crave donuts so much is because hunger exists.
The only reason we move toward pleasure is because pain exists.
Look, I’m not saying people should suffer the worst of circumstances, I’m not for any of these wars going on overseas.
I’m just saying meaning and purpose come from contrast.
You want to win so badly because losing sucks ass.
Finally, I've moved back into my home!
Full sail monk mode, right?
Not quite.
The last part of the process was the hardest...
I had literal blood, sweat, and tears to get back in here.
Pulling 3 electrical wires of solid copper through the 2-inch pipe is one of the hardest… twitter.com/i/web/status/1…
— Brand Marz 🐉 (@BrandMarz)
4:16 PM • Oct 27, 2023
Summary
Work smarter AND harder.
Adopt the mindset of Antifragility.
Environment is an extension of your mind.
Functional fitness is just being more of a human.
Everyone needs to learn psychology and marketing.
Don’t take your comforts for granted.
Setbacks make success sweeter.
Hope these were helpful!
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