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The Power of Focus and Building for Your Purpose
5 steps to a fulfilling life for ambitious, multi-passionates.
Life is challenging for us multi-passionates.
We aspire to achieve greatness in various aspects of life:
Fitness
Mental performance
Scratching our creative itch
Integrating ancient philosophy
Learning about new technology
Advancing our career and potential
Building our wealth through business
Making deep connections with others
Optimizing our minds and productivity
Becoming a master of multiple domains
However, the pursuit of this greatness is often derailed by constant distractions and the noise of the online world.
This is truly a new world order (not a conspiracy).
We face the unique challenge of juggling multiple interests, passions, and pursuits while battling the death grip of instant gratification from shiny-object syndrome.
Shiny Object Syndrome (SOS): a common habit or tendency of getting easily distracted or attracted by new and exciting things or ideas. People with SOS often find themselves constantly jumping from one project or goal to another, without completing or fully committing to any of them. This behavior can be detrimental as it leads to a lack of focus, productivity, and overall success.
Sadly, most people will never reach their potential and fail miserably.
I’m no pessimist but this is reality.
Human nature is wired for survival and we’re subjected to its conditioning.
Any problem you’re facing right now:
Not having a clear mind
Not being productive enough
Not making the money you want
Not achieving the body you want
is simply because you’re not skilled enough in becoming the type of person who easily overcomes those issues.
It’s apparent that there’s a missing ingredient that makes the recipe of life more satiating:
Focus.
The key to unlocking our true potential lies in pursuing mastery of a set of related skills and building strong character traits.
In my perspective, there’s no other way to foster a fulfilling life that transcends the ephemeral pleasure of simple distractions.
The Cost of an “Average” Life
Imagine a world where everyone remains content with mediocrity;
Where no one dares to dream big and work towards becoming the best version of themselves.
Ha! This isn't far from reality.
Most embrace a victim mindset, believing that they lack the necessary talent, upbringing, or opportunities to achieve greatness.
As a result, they fall short of their true potential and merely scratch the surface of what they could have accomplished.
Let me be the first one to admit, I had been there for too long.
Before recently, I used to be hung up on simple pleasures:
New software
Video games
Social media
Technology
Porn and sex
Junk food
Partying
These aren’t inherently bad in moderation but as habits, they can become “deadly” in the sense that you can spiral into a lifelong addictive cycle.
I’m not going to lie.
Some of these are still a struggle for me but I have to go back to my purpose and filter these activities through that lens.
Do I want my kids to know I have low self-control?
Is this something the world would find helpful?
Does this activity serve me in leaving a legacy?
Most of the time, the answer is no.
Then I find that I’ve gained so much more value and good dopamine from pursuing hard goals that require a delayed sense of gratification.
The Transformative Power of Mastery
The path to fulfillment lies in a complete shift in perspective – one that prioritizes character traits and essential skills over fleeting trends and quick fixes.
When you play the endless game of life mastery, you gain a deeper understanding of yourself and the world around you.
Each action you take towards honing your skills and building character traits becomes a power-up, propelling you to new levels of personal and professional growth.
This one example changed my outlook and the tug-o-war that plagues human nature:
Do I pursue pleasure now or fulfillment later?
There are 2 types of people:
Scarcity-mindedIf a poor person wins the lottery, they will lose that money in a matter of weeks or months. Why? Because they lack the skill of financial strategy (saving and investing) and goal setting. To add – they lack the character traits of patience and mindfulness. They will end up spending all the money on flashy objects like cars, a big house, an overpriced wardrobe, and more. | Growth-mindedOn the contrary, if a “self-built” millionaire loses all of their money, they can quickly gain it all back. Why? Because they’ve built the skills of marketing, sales, and communication (entrepreneurship). To add – they’ve developed the character traits of delayed gratification, focus, and persistence. They rebuild a profitable business with their network, knowledge, and resourcefulness. |
Foundational character traits + lucrative skill sets = Mastery
By pursuing mastery, you develop resilience and the ability to overcome challenges.
Failure becomes an opportunity for learning and growth, rather than a reason to give up.
The process of rewiring your brain and subconscious programming allows you to optimize your thoughts, beliefs, and behaviors, leading to a more focused and purposeful life.
5 Steps to Embrace the Path of Mastery
How do we put this into practice? Start with these:
1) The Decision Filter
Start by clarifying your purpose in life. Filter your decisions and inputs through the lens of this purpose.
Ask questions that help clarify this and write them down.
No, seriously, WRITE THEM DOWN!
What do I want?
Why do I want it?
How am I going to get it?
Does this move me closer or further from my goal?
If an activity or event does not align with your long-term goals, it's time to reconsider its place in your life.
2) The Habit Cycle
Create habits that support the person you want to become.
Does your ideal self meditate or scroll social media first thing in the morning?
Does your ideal self get 7-9 hours of sleep every night or watch Netflix 2 hours past bedtime?
Does your ideal self practice gratitude or do they complain and gossip about everyone who doesn’t agree with their needy demands?
Habits are like stepping stones that lead you closer to your goals.
Build routines around your pursuits, ensuring that your daily activities revolve around mastering the skills and traits you value most.
3) The Defined Path
Identify a set of 3-4 related skills that you are passionate about and want to master in the next 6-12 months.
Here are mine:
Better storytelling
Developing confidence on camera
Marketing my content ideas online
Writing to make my ideas digestible and easy to do
Choose fields that resonate with your ambitions and align with your long-term vision.
4) The Hero’s Journey:
Embrace the process of learning and growing, and don't fixate solely on the “end goal” of mastery.
Because there is no end goal – only death.
Celebrate the small victories along the way, and recognize that each step contributes to your overall progress.
5) The Temptation Cycle
Understand that the most fulfilling experiences and rewards often require delayed gratification.
Instead of seeking quick fixes, invest your time and energy in honing your skills, knowing that the results will compound over time.
Fuck trying to make quick money.
That shit is a trap.
Instead, I decided to play infinite games.
• Personal branding
• Self-improvement
• Skill buildingThey don't have a specific end goal.
But they're fulfilling and fun as hell.
— 𝗕𝗥𝗔𝗡𝗗 𝗠𝗔𝗥𝗭 🐉 (@BrandMarz)
11:33 AM • Jul 20, 2023
A Fulfilling Life of Purpose
The pursuit of mastery and the cultivation of character traits serve as guiding lights that lead to more fulfilling and rewarding experiences.
The world's most successful people are not born talented, they’re built.
They become exceptional through focus, fortitude, and fire in their hearts.
The Path of Mastery involves empowering yourself to rise above distractions and bloated guru advice, unlocking a world of opportunities.
Remember, you have the ability to rewrite your story and become the protagonist in a life of purpose and fulfillment.
Become obsessed with building character traits and skills, and have some fucking fun doing it.
As you progress, you'll inspire others to follow in your footsteps and discover the true potential within themselves.
This is the way to create a real legacy worth leaving behind.
Thanks for reading! If you’ve read this far, let me know what stood out to you.
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Best of luck on your journey!
See ya next time.
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